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This book explains many different ways you can get the bullies to stop bullying. Many of the people in this world hate confrontations. If you are one of those people, you don't need to confront the bullies yourself. There are lots of different ways you can report the bullies and have other people or agencies confront the bullies.
Typically, bullies are motivated to behave better when they are suddenly worried, they will get demoted or lose their job. Most bullies love having power and control over people. They want people to think they are important. Many bullies think everyone else should follow the rules and laws, but they are above the rules and laws. They think they are entitled. They are selfish and greedy. Some bullies really don't have any empathy or compassion for other people. They really do only care about themselves.
Some of the bullies, search for people who are nice and helpful. Once they find someone who they think will do things for them all of the time, they do whatever they can to charm and impress those people. They convince them they are wonderful people. Once their targets are convinced, they have a great relationship with this person who has put so much effort into impressing them and they form a definite relationship with them, the person who was acting like they are a hero, suddenly becomes mean. They no longer put much effort into impressing their victim. They are only capable of using their fake charming personality for limited amounts of time.
About 20% of the people in this world have a Sensitive personality.
The Sensitive people who have become trapped in this relationship suddenly need to figure-out how they can either get this monster to behave or how they can get away from this person who they thought they knew.
The Sensitive people need to figure-out how to recover and heal because the Bullies sometimes do a lot of damage to them.
The Sensitive people need to learn how to never get involved with this type of a person ever again. They need to recognize who is genuinely nice and who is just being nice because they want to take advantage of you.
Bullies frequently act the way they do because they suffer from mental health issues such as:
ADD
ADHD
Antisocial personality disorder
Anxiety
Avoidant personality disorder
Borderline personality disorder
Dependent personality disorder
Depression
Empathy dysfunction disorder
Histrionic personality disorder
Narcissistic personality disorder
Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
Oppositional defiance disorder
Paranoid personality disorder
Perfectionism
Schizoid personality disorder
Schizotypal personality disorder
Many of the people who have mental health issues refuse to seek treatment or take prescription medicines when they are prescribed for them
These people frequently act like everything that goes wrong in their life is someone else's fault.
They usually don't admit that anything is their fault. They really don't realize their behavior causes lots of problems.
Since most bullies are horrible problem solvers and lots of people who aren't bullies are followers, the Sensitive people are usually the people who need to solve the problems that happen and find ways to get the bullies to stop doing emotional damage to people.