Made for eachother : Love's perfect pair

The sky and birds.

Let's be truthful. Certain things were simply "made for each other."

They are what everyone longs to discover. Do you have yours yet?

Have you ever been in a cycle where you would feel abandoned if she left? Without a partner, does life seem empty to you? Have you ever thought how much you two resemble one another? Do you consider their issue to be your own? Is your partner your closest friend? Do you realize how natural it feels just to be together?

Joy Chapman's "Made for eachother" is the only song you need.

"Tony and I graduated from the same university, we met during an academic strike, he was waiting to start his one-year medical internship training, while I was waiting for a final clearance in my department," recalls Mary, a parasitologist and makeup artist, 29. At the time, he was employed by a single private hospital. His internship soon became successful, and he was instructed to return to duty the following week not long after we last spoke. In another state, he started working in a federal hospital. To assist him in settling, I was compelled to travel with him as we left. Due to contributions made at home, we encountered numerous conflicts and disagreements.

He takes care of both of us a lot, but I wasn't doing anything. However, I found out how difficult it was for him to meet our daily needs while I wasn't making my share of the contribution. To be more explicit, because I wasn't used to it, I don't genuinely see it as my obligation. I didn't do it even in my last relationship. And that's fine; I have no idea if it's improper. It took us some time to resolve it and come to an understanding. Even though I ended our relationship because I thought he was making too many demands, we both gave ourselves the chance to get to know one another better and establish a common ground for a brighter future.

I then remembered how and why I stumbled upon him. His drive drew me to him, and I honestly admired him for his natural talent, his physique, his color, his height, and everything else. He said, "It seems like we were made for each other. I can't live without you, I can't handle my work here without you, please overlook my mistakes, I'm at fault." It's comforting to know that he listened when I eventually spoke with him and told him how I felt. Now that things are going well, he is making an effort to contribute more frequently than I do, and I have ceased acting like the stingy girlfriend who required he spend his money on me. This illustrates the motivation the idea behind the book "made for eachother."

Remember that many of the topics listed above can be learned over time if this book does not resonate with you. Even if this isn't your relationship right now, it doesn't necessarily follow that it never will be. If you and your spouse work on these things together, you will gradually start to shape yourselves for one another.

If you believe that this book accurately portrays your relationship, consider yourself tremendously fortunate. You've uncovered something that seems "too good to be true." You and your sweetheart were totally designed for each other, exactly like a lock and key. Marriage and romantic partnerships are no different from other types of relationships in that they both come with a price tag. For them to be successful, sacrifices and commitments must be made.

Who the Author Is

Joy Chapman is a Los Angeles based social worker and businesswoman who specializes in love therapy. She thought that despite relationship troubles, love therapy should be applied. She helps individuals and couples improve their relationships and find more personal fulfillment.

Get a copy of "made for eachother" to clear up any confusion you may have regarding your love life, and you can thank me later.