Liberal Chic

Just by a CLICK he ruined his life. Historically he had to have an affair to do that but now it's just a "like". The sacred home was protected from evil influences but now it comes right in and we're defenseless. From my lovely home and starry nights with happy sounds and beautiful sights, suddenly it was HELL, alright? Human systems so tight/interconnected that the disease of one spreads throughout: they're not just sad about it. "You'll lose the love of your life if into pornography"--if she was the love of your life, why were you into it? Call it SEX USE disorder: he's using sexual acting out {including porn] to abuse others. Keep this central. Minimizing is common with pornography addiction as is discounting its impact on significant others. Betrayal Trauma: a deeply distressing or disturbing experience caused by infidelity, affairs or betrayal. It's how he can hurt me and not think twice about it. The chase hormones come first, I'm way down the docket. We wives did everything we could to make this situation heal. We were even more catering to the heels. It's very hard to stay on top if living with a cheater who's telling you white is black. Need clarity not the dark. It's always things like that--partial disclosure, denying, lying, minimizing, gaslighting. You keep prying. Partial Disclosure: He didn't have one affair, he had seven. He went to massage parlor 3x weekly, not 3 times. This is not a big deal, don't worry about this, you're way over-reacting--this is his classic MINIMIZING. Get armed guards and gardeners not this lazy shifty loser who never lifts a finger cuz he's lost in smut.