INTP left a civil service job to meet ESFJ

I'm going to write with someone I fell in love with at first sight I met a few months ago. Eventually, I failed to win her love twice. And with a long-term perspective, I designed the environment for her to find me. The fact that she missed the woman she loved due to the lack of career exploration and the subsequent decline in self-esteem... I realized that it was a self-identity problem. Every time I put myself on the subway on the morning of the boring commute, I was gradually losing my color. However, he quit his job after eight years of working at large corporations and public servants, which he had only walked through reading and writing. Rather, my mind became stronger and my life became more relaxed than when I went to a stable civil service job. Now I'm starting to ask myself questions specifically without questioning what life is. I'm curious and excited about how much my value will be in the market of capitalism in the future. There are no short-term rewards, but we know that there are huge rewards waiting for long-term growth. If you read this book, you can know INTP's brain, and if your date or boyfriend is INTP, you can also know how to approach love. Furthermore, it is helpful for those of MZ officials who are concerned about quitting their jobs. In addition, public officials suffering from depression, sleep disorders, and ADHD mental disorders can re-interpret their successful perspectives on the world and their identity problems. You can also see how you overcome unnecessary defense mechanisms (fear of challenging new things) in the modern era. Lastly, it is helpful for those who choose a stable job with only social gaze or reputation maintenance instinct. So let's all go on a journey together to design her to find an INTP man, the ESFJ that made me fall in love at first sight.