I Just Want This Done

How to Move on With Your Life Without Losing Everything

Divorce is the intersection of everything we hold dear in life: love, sex, money, and children. When those are threatened, people get angry. Logical and reasoned decision-making spirals to power plays and finger-pointing, and potentially open warfare. Without a clear head, divorce is a lose-lose for everyone except the lawyers.

It doesn't have to be that way. Family law attorney Raiford Palmer has helped clients find a faster, more peaceful, less costly alternative to "World War III" divorce cases. Unfortunately, some divorce lawyers (and their clients who don't know better) fight it out, at great expense to the divorcing spouses. Worse, divorcing parties fail to consider the all-important cost-benefit analysis to assess their chances in a case, so they end up chasing legal strategies that are not worth the trouble.

In I Just Want This Done, Raif guides the reader through the divorce process, from filing through resolution. With step-by-step advice, practical tips, and never-do-at-any-cost warnings, I Just Want This Done teaches:

What matters and what doesn't in divorceHow to know if reconciliation is possible or notHow typical legal advice risks everythingHow to choose the right divorce lawyerHow to be a smart clientThe 22 myths most people believe about divorceYour four case resolution optionsWhat the "meta case" is and how to win itThe four true costs of divorce and how to minimize themHow to protect your business and career during divorceThe do's and don'ts of child custodyHow (and why) to hire a divorce coachHow to handle new significant othersHow to not be painted as a jerkIf you want to avoid the divorce swamp, regain control of your future, and keep your kids, money, mind, and happiness, this book is for you.