How to avoid instilling a sense of inferiority in your child

This book is about how I felt while I was involved in raising my two daughters. I've also put together a list of 60 realizations as a counterpoint to the complexes I received from my parents. I read an article in the newspaper a long time ago that went something like this. It was about children who were fatherly. The father was unable to work because of lung cancer and was in a hospital in Kanazawa. The child came to Tokyo to get his father's vaccine. The child came to Tokyo to get the Maruyama Vaccine. My sister was still in the first grade and my brother was 3 years old. I had a letter of introduction to the hospital, but I had no one to rely on. We didn't have any money. The older sister and brother were at a loss because they had no place to stay and no money in a hospital in Tokyo. At that time, a man spoke to the schoolboy. He took pity on them and fed them and gave them some money. After receiving the vaccine, the children were happy that their father's illness would be better now, and they said goodbye to the man at Ueno station. This sister and brother came to Tokyo from Kanazawa by train just to have their father cured. They had nothing to offer. All children have this kind of pure heart. In fact, whether they behave this way or not, children love their fathers and mothers. However, if parents treat them in the wrong way, the relationship between parent and child can become strained. They become children who are not able to appreciate others or think of others. In addition, although it is an extreme example, some children will end up killing their parents. 　The following is a quote from the Sutra of Parents and Mothers On Shige-Sutra 　Be mindful from your own belly. Higher than the mountains, the debt of the father. Deeper than the sea, the debt of the mother. Thinking of a non-mother's child is unparalleled in the world. From the first time you were conceived, you must pray for your unborn child. In the cold, freezing, I took off my clothes, and wrapped the child in 　Sweet is spit out and give to the child, and bitter is eaten by itself. If you're far away, my child, you're going far away, until I come back and see your face. I think of my children when I go out and come in, and I think of them when I sleep and wake up. Every beautiful thing shall be given to the child, and the parents shall choose the old. In my own life, I will give my children a second chance. I go to my death, and after that, I hope you will protect your children. Oh, thankfulness, father's debt, how the child should repay. 　Oh, thank God, thank God for the mother, how the child should be rewarded. A parent's love for his or her children is a selfless love. Parents love their children without regard for themselves.I have been struggling with the complex my dad gave me since I was in junior high school, and in my twenties, I repeatedly told him not to coddle me, not to interfere, and not to be overprotective of me. In the past, I bought self-help seminars and CDs that cost tens of thousands of dollars to find a solution to my mental conflicts, and even though I read over 200 books, I still felt like I understood something, but I didn't. 　 It was then that I stopped in a bookstore and picked up a book. When I read this book (and heard the CD that came with it), I felt as if all the pus in my heart was gone, and all the conflicts that had been bothering me for nearly 30 years disappeared in one fell swoop with this book. After that, I decided to try to write down the conflicts that had been floating in and out of my head. I also wondered if I could write about this kind of resentment and rebelliousness towards my parents. I've been thinking that these issues are something I need to work out within myself. For what it's worth, I am the parent who raised me. I have caused my parents a lot of worry and trouble, not to mention financial trouble.