how MEN and WOMEN FIT

If I asked you how much you really understand or feel understoood by your partner, child or colleague, I wonder what would you score on a scale from 1-10.

Higher or lower than 8?

From all the people I asked, more than 90% scored eight or lower.

If you are part of that 90%, then welcome, I'm grateful that you bought this book because this is the perfect read for you. My goal is to get your score to be 9+, and this book will help you do just that

I feel happy to share with you my contribution to impact society in a positive way with the book I wrote: "How MEN & WOMEN FIT, Finally Understand Your Partner with The 3 Brains Theory".

It brings a revolutionary way of looking at relationships and how we as men and women can change our communication and social skills. It is based on the 3 brains we have: a Head, a Heart and a Gut brain (based on scientific research that is done over the last 70 years). How our brains developed from early times, how they make their decisions and even more important that there is a hierarchy in decision making.

You will discover how your 3 brains determine your and yours partners, friends, colleques life, how they are in charge of your emotions, decisions, communication, listening skills and handle conflicts. So actually, how successful, meaningful and happy/healthy your relationships are..

How your head brain provides you with logic and creativity. With an immense database of all the logical things you have learned so it can do: A better future prediction for you.

Your heart brain is the connector with other people and "drive" you with emotions like love, hatred and compassion. It is the "US" brain.

Last but not least actually first: The Gut Brain; it is in command of your survival and therefore, is able to overrule the other two. It is the "ME' Brain.

I guide you through the 5 reasons why we are actually setup to have troubled relationships:

Reason One: We misunderstand how our Minds (1 vs 3 brains) Really Work Reason Two: Our Gut and Heart Brain disagree about "ME" and" US" in Making Decisions Reason Three: The Equality Problem: We have been taught to dominate or to submit Reason Four: Gender Stereotypes: The Mars/Venus fallacy, the Hoax of Feminine and Masculine Traits Reason Five: We Underestimate the Power of Trauma/Abuse and Bullying And more important how to overcome these with the 17 rules and solutions for dealing with the 3 Brains.

Furthermore, I touch the topic how our 3 brains develop in children and teenagers and how to deal with that.

Just like how our 3 Brains are connected with sex and lovemaking.

We can all learn what our preference is, and also recognise which is our partner's, friend's, colleague's or manager's dominant brain.

Even more important we can educate, adjust and align our 3 Brains, they are not set in stone.

By knowing how your 3 Brains work, you can create happy, healthy relationships.

That is my promise to you. Christoffel Sneijders

My request is if you would join me to broadcast this message, for a better understanding and communication between people, creating more gender equality by transforming masculinity and femininity into the more neutral wording of Head /Gut and Heart Brain behaviour, and send out a signal how we could educate children and people more in a compassionate way instead of bullying or competition.