Family Constellation

Family Constellation

By Walter Toman, PhD

Contents I-THE GAME IN BRIEF

--The Nature of the Game

--Methodological Considerations II-MAJOR TYPES OF SIBLING POSITIONS

--The Oldest Brother of Brother(s)

--The Youngest Brother of Brother(s)

--The Oldest Brother of Sister(s)

--The Youngest Brother of Sister (s)

--The Oldest Sister of Sister(s)

--The Youngest Sister of Sister(s)

--The Oldest Sister of Brother(s)

--The Youngest Sister of Brother(s)

--Intermediary Sibling Positions

--The Only Child

--Twins III-MAJOR TYPES OF RELATIONS TO PARENTS

--Methodological Considerations

--Father the Oldest Brother of Brother(s)

--Father the Youngest Brother of Brother(s)

--Father the Oldest Brother of Sister(s)

--Father the Youngest Brother of Sister(s)

--Mother the Oldest Sister of Sister(s)

--Mother the Youngest Sister of Sister(s)

--Mother the Oldest Sister of Brother(s)

--Mother the Youngest Sister of Brother(s)

--Parents Additional Comments

--Children

--Losses IV-EXAMPLES OF THE GAME

--Boy in Psychological Treatment

--A Wife Returning to Her Parents

--A Criminal Prisoner

--A Mental Patient

--A Young Man Bereaved by Many Losses

--A Young Architect V-SOME THEORETICAL CONSIDERATIONS

--Algebra of Family Constellation

--Formulas of Family Constellation EPILOGUE

Preface In this book the reader will find a theory based on ten years of clinical psychological work during which the family constellations of over 400 persons were studied. This includes the functions of each person's own sibling position, of his parents, and of his children (where possible also of his grandparents), as well as of losses within the family constellation. These elements have been integrated into a system comprising eight basic types of sibling position and sixty-four basic types of conflict possible between a person and his or her parents. The eight basic sibling positions are presented in the form of extensive character portraits. They depict, above all, the enduring relationships to people men, women and children and the impact of incidental losses of those people, but they also outline attitudes toward authority, property, work, politics; religion, and philosophy. These portraits are composites of trends and features taken from a number of people. Hence not every detail or concrete example applies in every single case. The details and examples will help, though, to reveal the core of the portrait that has been found to be consistent in all cases of a given sibling position. Something similar holds for the sixty-four types of... ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Windham Press is committed to bringing the lost cultural heritage of ages past into the 21st century through high-quality reproductions of original, classic printed works at affordable prices. This book has been carefully crafted to utilize the original images of antique books rather than error-prone OCR text. This also preserves the work of the original typesetters of these classics, unknown craftsmen who laid out the text, often by hand, of each and every page you will read. Their subtle art involving judgment and interaction with the text is in many ways superior and more human than the mechanical methods utilized today, and gave each book a unique, hand-crafted feel in its text that connected the reader organically to the art of bindery and book-making. We think these benefits are worth the occasional imperfection resulting from the age of these books at the time of scanning, and their vintage feel provides a connection to the past that goes beyond the mere words of the text.