Before You say I do: 21 Considerations in Preparation for a Thriving Marriages

It takes a minimum of 21 days of continuous learning and regular practice to develop a new skill or habit and even longer for others to recognise and appreciate it. The right habits are the direct product of the regular application of the right information. Be inspired by your passion for making the appropriate decision and not the applause of your environment because the people around you will only notice 10% of every 100% change you make. Given that the family is the primary social institution and bedrock on which society is constructed, much time must be given to acquiring the right understanding to shape it. The stability of its families measures the potency of any nation. Strong families are the result of a man and woman joined together in marriage to honour each other and to serve God. This presents the basis for this book as a valuable tool to help singles, both male and female, develop the knowledge necessary to choose their partner and build thriving marriages. Many persons are unclear about what qualities to look for in a partner likewise, how to support their partners to guarantee a successful union. This has the propensity to cause distress and leave people disappointed. Before You Say I do, is intended to curtail any such problem and embolden individuals through an interactive process to reflect on and ask the right questions. This book serves as your tour guide, mentor, or skilled helper (counsellor), assisting in this most critical decision-making: finding a life partner. The book incorporates our personal journey, valuable principles drawn from years of experience in marriage, and our formal training as counsellors to serve as a unique guide toward developing a wholesome relationship. By studying these 21 practical considerations, the single can determine if he or she and his or her spouse are ready for marriage. The book is designed to aid in deciding whether to terminate an existing relationship or to proceed with the relationship while seeking to know more and to move to marriage right away. While it is specially written with singles in mind, it is a helpful tool for married couples and serves as a tool to foster improvement.

Singles must understand the assignment set out in the product description and commit to proper execution. While it is an immediate tool, we hope you will utilise it progressively to pursue the right spouse and a fulfilling marriage. Like any other tool, it will not work on its own; you must commit to studying, practising, discerning, and applying. While there is no Mr or Mrs. Right, there is one person who is RIGHT for you. Commit to a meaningful search.