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Imagine a man meeting the fi rst real love of his life when he’s 63—and she’s already been dead three years. Does life continue after death? Do we enjoy sex after death? Comedienne Lily Tomlin once affi rmed the latter question, asserting there is sex after death—-but you can’t feel it. I beg to diff er. Of course, our sensual experiences are not awash in the same physical sensations most people associate with sex. Th ey can’t be when one partner is a spirit. But if you can imagine separating the physical causes of these sensations from the sublime sensations themselves---you’ll get some idea. Th e brain is our most signifi cant sex organ. In this otherworldly romance, my brain is overwhelmed by distilled passions from the other side combining with my own ecstasies here. When the love of my life and I connect, our souls seem to join together deep in my mind within an intimate space. Th e quality of our sex is especially transformed by one singular feature--she’s not tethered by the laws of gravity. Neither is she restrained by time or space. All this allows unique freedoms in sexual play otherwise quite unimaginable.