20 Days of Inner Alchemy to Create the Close, Happy and Loving Relationship You

This book will help you to stop struggling and working on your relationship and instead create positive, lasting change at the source of all of relationship issues: you as a partner. This book will help you to become the kind of woman or man that has the relationship you desire by teaching you to: * shift your mindset and this will cause you to naturally act in new ways that will create a close and loving relationship. * to take control of your moods before you react * forgive quickly and return to good feelings * apologize in a way that will wipe the slate clean * reach a state of acceptance and unconditional love for your parnter * see the best in your mate * inspire more love from your mate * bring out the best in him/her * experience more joy, play and laughter in your relationship * fall in love with yourself as you improve the relationship * quit the self defeating behaviors that destroy relationships * shine your lovable, authentic self instead of "shrinking" and becoming lost in your relationship * to decide what you truly want in a relationship and develop a plan to get it * adopt empowering beliefs that will help you to love and connect more deeply and have a relationship that is better on every level * remain aligned with a loving and joyful relationship on a daily basis by developing new, empowering habits * tap into your inner guidance and make the best decisions for yourself and your relationship The change this book will help you to stop struggling. People try to force ourselves (and the other person) to change their behaviors. There are two things wrong with this approach: first it is not sustainable and second, this will only create change on the surface. Although your behaviors are what ultimately create your relationship, you want to get to the source of your behaviors. Changing your behaviors without getting to the source is like trying to bail out a flooded boat without finding and fixing the leak. You'll struggle, and eventually give up. Imagine how amazing your relationship would be if you could align your thoughts, moods, beliefs, intentions and actions with love, joy, peace, passion and harmony until it becomes effortless. This is what this book offers instruction on. If you follow through and do the exercises in this book regularly, the results WILL be a joyful, close and loving relationship. The principals in this book are mental, emotional and spiritual and they will require a new way of thinking on your part. They will challenge you to go much deeper than you are likely accustomed to. This isn't about "getting" someone to fall in love with you, it's about becoming the kind of partner that sustains true love for a lifetime.