Self Guidance

A book for directors of their own lives. For readers who don't expect recommendations for a right or wrong. For readers who want to recognise and observe their own opinion and attitude undisturbed.The question of how self-determined you want to live has accompanied you throughout your life. Whether you hear it or you didn't listen.Most of us learned at home to follow an opposite request: "If you do what I want you to do, you're okay, I can like you, or even love you."We don't just get this behavioural challenge from our mothers. It also comes from fathers, partners, teachers, government agencies ... We grow up with it, integrate it into our lives as habits and beliefs. We apply them ourselves to our fellow human beings. In short, we adapt without knowing how we are synchronising.If we are obedient children, subordinate partners, obedient citizens, we are right. We are right because our behaviour seems predictable and controllable. Government agencies generally fear nothing more than mature citizens. Citizens who do not want to be checked for granted, who not only develop their own opinion inappropriately, but even dare to comply with it.Now we are starting to get uncomfortable. We no longer fit into the predictability templates that others have designed for us. If we don't give up on the mismatched, we can even become enemies.And this position of being outcast is too bad for many. Defeated, they pull in their tails, reluctantly subordinate themselves and put themselves under the 'protective coat' of an involuntarily chosen synchronisation. With this decision, however, they all pay a high price: they pay with their liveliness. Joke changes to cynicism, inner rebellion to secret and often blind anger.This impulse book "Self-leadership" connects you again with your oppressed being. This happens completely undramatic by using the impulse tasks to communicate with yourself. You will become more sensitive and noisy. You look more than you look away. Your creative consciousness wakes up and is less and less put to sleep. You live your own life and no longer the one given by others.Sometimes you may feel a little bit scared while reading and going your own way. But most of all, you will experience how much unexpected energy and strength you gain. How much desire for your life.