Ladies, there are good men out there you just keep making bad choices.

This book is dedicated to my Aunt Bell. She and my mother were identical twins, but they were as different as day and night. Aunt Bell was more to me than an aunt - she was one of my best and closest friends. She was a person I could talk to about anything. I could share all of my darkest secrets with her, and I had a lot. She knew my lifestyle and all the women I was dating, but she never judged me. As a young man in my 20s, she told me these five things: 1)Son, always protect yourself and the women you are with. 2)Be honest and up front with those women about the kind of relationship you want to have with them. Tell them and let it be their choice to be with you or not. Never have a woman believing she is the only woman in your life when you know she is not. 3)Treat all women with respect - the same respect that you show to your mother, sisters, daughter, and granddaughter. 4)A woman's feelings are not something you play with. The things you do and say to her can make her happy or break her heart. 5)A woman's heart is a very fragile and delicate thing. It is not something you play with and then discard when you are done. I took these five pieces of advice and I used them, although maybe not the way Aunt Bell would have wanted me to do so. However, I used them and was very successful in dating and having sex with hundreds of women.